So when someone says to you "Sounds like you need a vacation" is that code for 'stop you're bitching you are annoying'? I think it might be. But don't I have the right to have a bad day once and a while? I am the one EVERYONE comes to and dumps their issues on me. I sit and take it with a smile, even offer advice and anecdotes. But every once in a while I suffer from the stress of it all and am grumpy. So sue me. And then go screw yourself!